Somehow, I feel this word is miss-spelled it should be in-chocolate, ‘col’ seems to be missing :). Just kidding actually I myself is little inchoate, so it looked like this, to me, I wonder. Or, might be in my previous post I used the word ‘Chocolate’ 😎 hummmm.
Suddenly, with the introduction of this word inchoate, everything looks like incomplete, immature and yes, inchoate. We live life in four phases, mainly; child, young, middle age and old age. Every stage comes with certain accomplishments. We acquire education, higher education and find good jobs, or we do business. Wherever we are whatever we do, sometimes we feel that something is still missing from our attainments. And a feeling of anxiety prevails. In achieving all the outwardly medals, achievements, and fame we forget the most important thing, to live and to enjoy the life. We totally ignore the need to enjoy the small little things happening around us. We want to win every rat race, we are in. (We are no less than the Alexander the Great in our small world, with big aspirations).
I know life is not easy, it throws all the obstacles and barriers, but that’s not to stop you from living, but that is to make you more strong and mature as a pure human soul.
The perspective has to be changed to look at the things happening around us. I totally agree that if something bad happens to someone, any kind of loss leaves us stunned and in shock. But isn’t it, this is the time where we can find a way to grow, and we can collect all our strength to become even more, content and mature.
I have always felt, life is just like getting the higher education, the higher you go, tough exams you will face. Any sorrow or chaos is an exam you have to pass through, keeping calm, and towards tranquility.
Never forget, life throws happiness and sadness to everyone, it is just timing, that is different for all, the one who was sad yesterday is happy today, and the one who is sad today, will be happy tomorrow. Both of these sides keep changing for everyone, turn by turn. All this process is to make you feel more jubilant towards life and to make you enjoy every reason to smile.
And when you will face all the happiness and sadness, the only thing left will be peaceful harmony and benevolence, between body and soul, or inside and outside.
When you are sad and can you see what is making you sad, is it worthy of being sad and leaving the chance to smile with the person sharing a good news with you?
When you are happy and won some award, can you see the happiness of yourself and feel the sadness of your opponent, the one who could not win?