Sometimes people get misguided and feel that they really like and love you. But love is not just a four-letter word, it comes with a lot more than that. Love, means you are going to trust, you are going to be there for them, you will not judge, you are going to forget and forgive their mistakes.
When everything is fine and glimmer, we can easily make it and say that we love someone or something. The real test happens when they make a mistake, and all the love and trust takes back seat, to you, only the mistake is visible.
It becomes hard to forgive and forget. We judge them and we want to punish them because we loved them. How can he/she do it to me, I loved him/her? Our anger, our ego, that we loved them, takes us away from the realization that we all are human and we all make mistakes, big, short, small, long all kind of mistakes we do.
It is not easy to forgive, because we are upset with them. And it takes immense power to be forgiving and accept that he/she can make mistake despite your love.
Forgiveness brings an extra quality to life, you set yourself free when you set the other free from his mistake. It brings mutual freedom. Unconditional love creates unconditional forgiveness.
Nature never gives more or less to anyone, it doesn’t set any condition. A tree gives it shade to all, equally. Sunshine’s on everything equally, without any condition!
Be the human sunshine, love, forgive and be at peace!